Saturday, December 17, 2011

Finding a girlfriend? Help, tips please?

I was very much like you in high school, both in terms of dating experience and religion. College, however, I really came into my own, so don't worry, there is hope of not becoming your uncle. First of all, while I don't think that abstaining from pre-marital is a turn-off to every woman, you will find that a large chunk of the dating pull will not be as comfortable in a long term dating relationship without the physical intimacy aspect. And those that say they are okay with it still may not be, which will only become evident with time. College is a GREAT place to meet like-minded women, however, because of the prevalence of religious clubs. That is the number one place to meet women with your criteria and typically these clubs have many, many events throughout the school year to get club members to interact, creating the perfect environment to meet girls and start dating. Other than that, my friends often met boyfriends/girlfriends at the library (strangely a big flirting scene during busy times), nearby coffee shops, and through other campus organizations and events (football games, cles, greek life.) Start conversations with easy, light subjects that hopefully pertain to the event/place that you are at so they feel like organic conversations. Humor is an amazing quality that you should definitely highlight because it puts girls at instant ease. Have confidence in yourself, because really, as a female, that is the most attractive quality to me. Akwardness and insecurity is very noticeable and causes the girl to be uneasy. Be sweet, but not doting; most girls like somewhat of a challenge, but really never someone who is rude. Be relaxed, take it slow and easy, and most importantly, have fun!

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